Moving Through The Depths of Our Emotions

Hello Beloveds. I just finished coaching a warrior sister, and she is in the depths of feeling all her emotions. Brave, courageous and strong, she is moving through her emotional density and bringing in more Light. This is the work we have been chosen to do, and in the process of clearing the old stories, patterns, feelings of loneliness and confusion, know that your inner castles are being cleared and bringing you closer to the divinity of God that is you.

And what this path will probably call for is boundaries in your personal life. My sense is many of you are the ones in your family structures that are breaking down the old paradigm to bring in the new reality. And what happens when the old structures are broken down, those not able to process their feelings will deflect them onto you. In their unprocessed pain and the fear of moving into their hearts, you might be bombarded with manipulation, abuse, and dark energies that are more aligned with the egoic structure that is desperate to hang on and not transform.

There are two forms of abuse – passive and aggressive. The aggressive side tends to be more obvious in the form of physical and sexual abuse, rape, torture, and other forms of bodily harm. When this type of abuse happens in a relationship, the contract is immediately over. You are complete with this partnership whether it is friend, family, or co-worker. Passive abuse can be much more subtle, and to empaths and light workers, extremely devastating. This shows up as emotional and mental abuse and/or neglect, verbal abuse, and just as important, not having our feelings honored, supported, or acknowledged. This understanding that what you feel is just as important to be supported may be new to you, as it was to me a couple of years ago. We have not had structures in our society that say how you feel is to be acknowledged. Instead, we are taught to skip over it, toughen up, lighten up, or don’t take ourselves too seriously. And while all of that may have its place in certain points and times, if the fundamental pattern is to continually degrade you or who you are by not acknowledging your emotions, then it is time to set a boundary.

So in order to set boundaries in your life to create a safe space where you are supported and honored, the best thing that may need to happen is that you give these individuals the gift of your absence – either temporarily or forever. There is no room for any type of abuse in any relationship, and particularly when you are moving through this transition of aligning yourself with Light and Love. Some may feel you are taking the easy way out, and this is farthest from the truth because you have the courage to set boundaries on what is right for you. Your only commitment is to you and your soul. That’s it. And as much as you may want to do the work for others, we can only do the work for ourselves. We can have empathy and compassion for others on their journey even if we are not a part of it any longer, and the more you commit to yourself and move away from those that are not in alignment for you, the faster and sooner you clear your inner castles and become the space for others to move into theirs. That is the highest definition of being Love.

If you start to build your spiritual castle on sand, and by this I mean by not allowing yourself to move through these feelings and instead stay in your mind and ego structure, then every little wave of life will toss you overboard because you only have a little boat. Each time you allow yourself to sit and process the emotions, you build a bigger inner boat. Eventually, you can move through the Ocean of emotions with a boat that is so strong that nothing will toss you over – even a hurricane. And then, you are as strong as a mountain because you are immovable in your Light. And in Unity consciousness, what you become, others become as well.

And so I end by sending some extra special love to this tribe gathering here who resonates with Light, Love, and the commitment to realigning our egos with heart-centered consciousness. We are warriors on this path, and Love is the way we get there. We are Love. xo